Hυsbaпd plays his wife tragically estranged during the seventh month of pregnancy, the child faces discomfort and misfortune, which adds to his emotional development. “As I held my son in my arms, I was overwhelmed by the heartbreaking sight.”
Since then they have had four children together. The couple mainly works in agriculture and, during their free time, take up odd jobs to earn extra money to support their young children.
Having a large family has made life difficult for the couple, but it is also accompanied by the joyful laughter of their children after each day of exhausting work. However, this happiness did not last long when a series of tragedies befell Mr. Thag, the husband and father who recently turned 40.
Almost two years ago, his wife became pregnant with their fourth child. They discovered through ultrasound that the baby in her womb was a boy. The entire family and relatives eagerly awaited the day when the baby would leave the world. However, when they helped their brother get his arms wet, both the husband and wife were shocked to discover that his body still had the umbilical cord attached, with some abnormalities.
Thag still vividly remembers the day he took away his doctor's choice. “My wife was in the delivery room, I was waiting anxiously outside the door. When the doctor called me, I was very happy. But when I picked it up from the doctor, I was surprised to see that my soup container was completely black.
The doctor at that time encouraged me by saying: “Dad, don't worry, the baby was born healthy, without defects in every part. Do your best.” Holding my baby in my arms, I pour out teachings but it is my dream, such a destiny, I have to accept it, but I don't know what to do. Right in hospitality, Thag and his wife named their son Traп The Da. Dad was diagnosed by a doctor with a giant pigmentation problem, and he had to undergo multiple surgeries to treat it,” Thag said.
Despite having a "heavy" shape compared to other children, with the love and care of his parents, dad grew up normal and healthy. So far, baby Da is 20 months old, he has begun to take his first steps and learn to talk. However, when I know what to call my father and mother, it is also the time when I have to live as an orphan.
The role of the husband who lost his wife during pregnancy, the child drowned
Graпdsoп Da was barely 1 year old, his wife Thaпg was pregnant with their fifth child. Although they had 4 children but were pregnant, the couple decided to keep the child in the womb, even though they knew they would face difficulties. Especially Da's malformation has not been treated.
Working in the hope of earning money to care for his pregnant wife and four young children, Mr. Thag has no light hardships. "Children are the greatest asset," he said. I still have the strength to work, no matter how difficult it is, I will overcome it, as long as my wife and children are healthy, I will be very happy.”
Such a small wish, but fate did not give him the opportunity to fulfill it. His wife, when she was 7 months pregnant, suddenly gave strong signs, although they quickly took her to the emergency room, but it was too late. His wife died from circulatory arrest and the child in the womb could not be saved.
His wife died suddenly, he had to repress his involvement to take care of his life and the future of his four young children. He shared that when his wife died, the children cried every fight because they missed their mother. “Baby Da is only 20 months old, I remember the warmth of his mother crying all the time. Still holding the baby in my arms, I pat him: “Here I am! “Sleep well” and I pray for my wife so I can bless my father and give him good health and peace.
I thought that the events that happened were the extreme blow that Mr. Thag had to endure, but fate had not let him go yet. In mid-September, her second daughter drowned, but was fortunately discovered and taken to hospital for emergency treatment. Holding his 20-month-old baby in his arms, looking at his daughter in the recovery room (Qυaпg Niпh Obstetrics apd Childre's Hospital), Mr. Thag felt that his testimonies were Ьгokeп and said: “Why God is it so fair to me? ?” .
